Not about changing anyone. Not about manipulation.
About showing up authentically, building trust slowly,
and letting love do its work.
🌉 The Philosophy
🎯 The Goal
Not to "win" your parents over. Not to perform for approval. To build genuine connection by being consistently, authentically present — and letting the relationship heal naturally.
🧠 Rationality & Reality
This system tracks patterns and offers reality checks. Are you avoiding calls out of actual conflict, or fear of imagined rejection? Is the story in your head matching what's actually happening?
💚 Values Alignment
Each action is measured against your stated values. Are you being the son/parent/person you want to be? Progress isn't about points — it's about integrity.
📈 Life Satisfaction
Weekly check-ins on how this work is affecting your actual wellbeing. If it's not improving your life, we adjust the approach.
🔄 Pattern Correction
The system notices when old patterns resurface — avoidance, over-explaining, people-pleasing, withdrawal. Gentle nudges toward healthier responses.
💰 The Bank Account
Ma & Ta deposit real money for meaningful connections. But the money isn't the point — it's a symbol that they're invested in this too.